Waiting so long to cut off a toxic parent. Not spending more time with a good parent. Not going to therapy sooner.

Aw, thanks.

It’s not about loving myself. I think I’m pretty decent. It’s just luck of the draw that everyone around me has their head up their ass. I rationally know I should be loved. I emotionally feel the lack and don’t understand it.

That’s just the way I’ve been treated my entire life. Don’t see any reason for it to change.

Wish I this could be me, but I don’t think it’s in the cards.

The US. In my dad’s time it was percolator brewed (the literal worst way to brew) or with low grade, super roasted. I drink medium roast or lighter and drip brew or pour over. Vast vast difference.

Second vote for thiccmoe

Coffee. My dad was in the navy in the 70s and you could tell by the tar he drank. Never got into it. Early 20s I got hired as a delivery boy for a coffee shop. A perk was that it came with free coffee drinks. Turns out I didn’t hate coffee, I hated the swill my father brewed. Good coffee was quite good.

Ugh. I’m the opposite. I hate mine. It’s a middling mattress that can’t hold its edge shape. Mine is now a slope. Also moving them is somehow worse than moving a spring mattress which is already terrible!

I find this hard to believe.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gum_base

They’re right.

Vtubers. I get the cute anime girl thing and I like fan art of them as I do other anime. But the models move wayyyyyy to exaggerated. It hits uncanny valley for me.

Also I don’t get the parasocial relationship of chatting in a huge room of other followers. The chat is scrolling by at a hundred miles an hour and you’re competing with everyone else for their attention.

Making anything. All of my hobbies are making. Making pickles or beer or bread or dried snacks or canned jams. Designing and 3d printing my own widgets. Organizing and cleaning. Structure.

I use connect which also does that. IMO, it should be native.

Nah, you’re showing selection bias or something. Kids have always wanted to be rock stars.

Gasp. The things I felt seeing this image.

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I’m very interested in this. I’m kinda stunned that lemmy doesn’t do this natively.

!canning@midwest.social would like this.

Looks like something water jet channel would do.

Don’t ruin a hobby with money. You will lose all enjoyment of it. Something changes when you get paid for it.

Actually never been in a relationship before

You need to be bad at something before you’re good at something, in almost every thing in life. You have to go thru bad relationships before you’ll understand what’s a good one. Just be willing to learn and end things when it’s time.