Not sure how to help you out with it, but you’re at least not alone. Robert Smith from The Cure had the same problem with the song “Friday I’m in Love”: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friday_I%27m_in_Love

“During the writing process, Robert Smith became convinced that he had inadvertently stolen the chord progression from somewhere, and this led him to a state of paranoia where he called everyone he could think of and played the song for them, asking if they had heard it before. None of them had, and Smith realised that the melody was indeed his.”

No, you see it’s: “dun-dun-dun-dudu-dun-dun dudu dun-dun-dun-dudu-dun-dun”

not

“dun-dun-dun-dudu-dun-dun, dun-dun-dun-dudu-dun-dun”

Everything is derivative of something else. Thag made that drumbeat on a rock 20000 years ago and it has passed down in oral history to eventually be in a Nirvana song.

This sometimes results in songs like Dani California that are almost certainly overt or unintentional copies of another song. When you find out your song is subjectively too close to another song you do the right thing, whatever that may be between you and the original musician.

Nope, happens a lot to me, too. Worst part is that whatever you’re accidentally plagiarizing, will immediately sound great and will be really easy to write, because of course, you’ve listened to it before. And it can be nigh impossible to distinguish between accidental plagiarism and just being in a flow.

You don’t. I used to write music, and I would frequently think I’m writing a melody only for it to turn out to be something I heard in the background of a TV show or something.

Reminder Deadmau5 has accidentally remade Sandstorm multiple times.

Don’t worry about it. There are only so many progressions. Everything else is just variations within them, with bass lines, melodies and rhythms.

Art is theft

All art is inspired by other art, it grows, evolves, eats itself, parodies life, informs living.

I wouldn’t worry about it

Run it through shazam (or a foss alternative if there is one) and check?

Nothing is ever truly original, everything you create is a remix of things you encountered after they are processed by your subconscious. And that’s ok. Even if your song will end up to be very similar to another one it will be your own spin on the musical “idea”. Go for it

I’m not a song writer but it seems to me a lots of songs can share some similar chord progression without being in any way the same. It can be more or less obvious.

I feel like, as we’re immersed into music, when creating music what we hear in our head can and will be influenced. It probably should be too.

Because even so, you have more than one influence, you don’t put them like anyone else and that’s where you start putting something that’s you, into it.

But to me that also mean what you feel is not only normal for a song writer, but also to any creative process.

I myself got quite obsessed at some point with this question of what is “original”, what is creation.

It’s pretty philosophical though, on a more practical point of view the best solution is to be learn to recognize your influences in general, and start to build your own style from them. Then you’ll know even if one melody resembled another it’s still your song. That takes a good level of expertise to define yourself though, and is never really fixed, wich will mean the question can come back often.

Why worry when you are just writing a song ?

Write the song about the song sounding like another song.

I’ve done this. Yes, they did exist. That’s one of the risks of creating songs from melodies stuck in your head

You don’t. It happens. There are only so many notes. As Picasso said, “good artists borrow, great artists steal”

Same here. A few song ideas pop into my head, and then weeks later I realize that I’m basically unknowingly stealing a melody from someone else.

This could be a problem once I start my music career. Because copyright.