• P00ptart@lemmy.world
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      4 days ago

      I’ve been objectified by women. Usually 30+ years older than me. Granted, it’s been a while. Creepy old people isn’t a male-exclusive club.

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        Can confirm; I was indecently assaulted by a woman around 30 years older than me when I freshly turned 18. Took me a while to deal with the cognitive dissonance between wanting to be wanted and wanting bodily autonomy. While most of them are men, gross people are always gonna be gross.

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          Yup. At that age I knew it was a gross thing. But also at that age, I was horny. And why would I jump on a 60 year old when I was pulling people my age?

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        3 days ago

        You haven’t been objectified by way more men than women? I just inferred that men are creepier from personal experience.

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          Oh for sure, with the few times it’s happened to me, I never felt threatened. Just grossed out.