• daggermoon@piefed.world
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        1 day ago

        Very true, however we live in a society where it is highly frowned upon. I don’t think i’m brave enough to wear skorts in public. Maybe some day, idk.

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            17 hours ago

            True, but then I get hit on by men which isn’t the goal. Yes, that’s likely to happen anyway but I don’t see why I should go out of my way to go someplace where it’s almost guaranteed. Yes, I’m very aware that’s a me problem.

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              11 hours ago

              Ye, but if getting hit on by men wasn’t danger-coded or gross, it would be less of a deterrent. You don’t have to blame yourself.

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                8 hours ago

                If getting hit on by men is the only problem we’ve got to find you a supportive lesbian friend group or bar where you can try on pretty dresses (I think they’re called drag clubs)

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                  4 hours ago

                  Lesbians love me lol. Never really been interested in drag. I definitely respect it though. I’d be willing to go if a friend wanted to. I don’t have any pretty dresses to try on. I want a maid dress. That would be awesome.

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                    3 hours ago

                    The best tailor i ever had did primarily wedding dresses (on Lamar Street in Austin if they’re still around, I just am terrible with names) and I was recommended through a friend getting her dress done. I was actually her first male presenting client (unknowingly going for the twink look at the time) and she altered half my tops. Got them nice and snug.

                    Which reminds me, I haven’t fit into my favorite shirt for years, but if I wear it like so… Gimme a minute my wife is going to be so happy she likes the shirt as much as I do

                    Edit hot damn I’m wearing it to the jazz festival

                    Now I just need a good occasion for the kilt that isn’t ethnically or sprotsbally oriented. Or lesbian game night because they’re too supportive. I’m trying to push myself a little, grow as a person.