transcription: be me, closeted transfem, have computer science degree, family constantly bothering me with tech problems, always dumb shit like not restarting computer or googling error messages, lightbulb.jpeg, come out to family, get disowned as expected, they never contact me again, dont have to deal with their dumb it problems anymore, mfw, should have done this years ago.
You totally can, though. AFAIK, the security-relevant scenarios where Wayland makes a difference are super esoteric, the performance differences are slight and on most desktop environments it doesn’t have anywhere near feature parity, so it’s more about which desktop environment you like and how far along it is with developing a Wayland version (if it does so at all).