transcription: be me, closeted transfem, have computer science degree, family constantly bothering me with tech problems, always dumb shit like not restarting computer or googling error messages, lightbulb.jpeg, come out to family, get disowned as expected, they never contact me again, dont have to deal with their dumb it problems anymore, mfw, should have done this years ago.
The other comments explained the differences quite well. I just wanted to mention that whilst, yes, Wayland is the future, and it works great for me, it does still lack some important features. AFAIK, accessibility is considerably worse on Wayland so far, which is why e.g. visually impaired folks fare better with X11. (at least it was that way not too long ago)