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Cake day: July 31st, 2023

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  • legally it depends on local laws.

    Yeah nah. Romeo & Juliet laws don’t cover this because 14 and 20 is too far apart. And you can not legally consent if you’re under 18 in almost all developed countries. There is no legal debate for these countries.

    There definitely are some 14-year-olds that are mature enough to consent.

    Hard disagree. Some will say or act like they consent but at 14 your brain is not fully developed. They might find out how bad of a decision that was only 10 years later. Consent does not only mean verbal or physical agreement, but also to be absolutely sure someone has a full understanding of all actions and consequences, and at 14 you can not presume that. There’s a reason the age of consent is 18. Almost everyone has developed a grasp of these things at 18yo and above.

    He is not a Jeffrey Epstein, but holy shit call it what it is.







  • Too young? That’s a hard question. It’s definitely risky to marry this young, but also I have no clue what your situation is. Although you sound like you are in the prime position for this to work out so idk.

    So you are definitely very young for marriage but don’t let that distract you - it sounds like it’ll be worth it to you :)

    Also as a chronic overthinker, do not hesitate to just talk about it with your gf if you are worried.

    And all the best from me and make sure to eat lots of cake at the wedding party ^^