God this is why I asked. I don’t want to come off as creepy, and honestly atp I think I’ll just keep quiet than not, thanks comments section.

I AM NOT LOOKING TO DATE THEM! JESUS I THOUGHT I WAS CLEAR ABOUT THAT.

Thanks, a bunch of folks pointed it out, and I think that’s something I’ll certainly heed to.

don’t call women females

Welp, sorry, english is not my first language, so sometimes my choice of words is questionable 😓

The advice fits the name :p

Thanks! You’re probably one of the few people in the comments who actually understood what I meant to convey. Like, I KNOW I’m not trying to be a creep. I just want the other party to feel the same. And your advice was really thorough.

Update: wrote this to cope with it personally lol

You’re probably misunderstanding what netbird does (unless I’m the one misunderstanding things?).

Netbird subnet is equivalent to a tailscale tailnet (for all practical purposes; they even both use wireguard and hole-punching underneath). Netbird is not a reverse proxy (which I feel is what you think based on your comment).

Opening jellyfin up publicly is kind of asking for trouble if you ask me. I haven’t done so myself, but seen enough on this community and elsewhere to know that it’s probably not a good idea.

https://lemmy.world/post/49663813

My old post from my old account.

Since then, I’ve been moving my PC (not server) from arch to nix, and discovered that I was relying on fundamentally broken DNS resolution behaviour on netbird.

Fixed that and also changed my Caddy config to use FQDNs as well.

Apart from that, added Gollum as a wiki server, and the experience has been perfectly amazing!

Still waiting to get my own mini-PC and use that, current shitbox is a desktop in my college.

You can consider using one of the invidious instances, or deploy one on your own that routes through proxies