i like this, it removes the “traditional” gender expectations from the saying, while also bringing any other members of the immediate family into the equation.

you get it. glad you found something that helps, took me a while to find a med combo that worked to help me “logic” my way through the emotions. they’re still there, but i’m able to bitch slap them into submission more easily.

hah, computers have had the same drive rail layout for so long that i didn’t even notice! .^_.

what, do i dare ask, are the computer holes?

see, this is why we millienials throw so many lols into our text communication. so people know it’s not super serious lol.

i wonder how much extra stress access to instant non-verbal communication has added to humanity. like for thousands of years you could only talk to someone face to face or wait three months for a letter to arrive. we never really had to try and translate someone’s intent without the aid of vocal tone and body language until pretty recently.

that’s just a mid-coitus snack! at least it wasn’t a pastrami sandwich.

“happy wife happy life” seems so… antiquated though.

edit i think my viewpoint might be because my parents were both born in the early 1950s and very much reinforce the “boomer” stereotypes. i think both people in a partnership should be happy, to be clear.

that’s awesome. it can take a lot of courage to be blunt, even if you’re very close to someone. i always have that voice in the back of my head going “was i too blunt? what if i offended them? what if they hate me now?” etc etc, even when i’m trying to be polite.

aaaaaaaand this is how you radicalize an entire generation.

arch wiki is good, been using that since i migrated to cachyos in september (had been running win 11 pro for years prior to that). only major issue i had was display related lol, i use a tv that needs a custom EDID to expose 120hz mode and it was an absolute nightmare trying to generate it with linux. ended up using a linux tool to dump my existing EDID then popping it into CRU via wine to generate the new one. Works pretty damn well now, have to say.

“Black and white” thinking is something that adhd and asd people struggle with constantly. It may not be a choice.

It’s all just one big ass blast.

I don’t think anyone went AWOL in forest gump

I think statute of limitations on most of the common ucmj articles maxes out at 5 years? It’s been a while, but short version is a cousin of a friend went awol and basically hid on a shrimping boat for years until they couldn’t come after him anymore. Not easy for sure.

I’m assuming they meant AWOL (absent without leave).

There’s only so much batshit crazy a brain can take before fruit related debates become inevitable.

No, not being able to steal all of the fruit.

you’re underestimating tweakers

Cats eat by sense of smell before taste. Churu is basically thin tapioca pudding (not dairy but texture-wise i mean) with a shitload of strong scents in it that drive them absolutely wild!