Obviously, your mental health and well-being and that of your partner are the first consideration. Please do whatever the two of you need to survive the times.

That said, when I read, “it’s either me or these beliefs/trump,” I wondered how you would have reacted if your dad had said you have to choose between him and being gay/your partner. I assume you might have shut the door in his face, felt good about it, and never looked back.

I doubt he’ll feel any different about it.

If only! That’s <$300 total “savings,” but the proposal is to return only 20% of it, so something <$60

Shayne Smith is a legend. That bit he did on terrorizing the Mormon “bad” kids was hilarious!