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Cake day: March 28th, 2024

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  • Sorry you’re feeling this way. Something almost everybody struggles with is comparing yourself to others. I’d think about how past you might feel about you today after health and educational goals. Nice job! You should be proud of yourself.

    Next, think about what makes somebody a loser and if you were evaluating somebody else in your exact same position would you think they’re a loser? There are two pieces here:

    1. If you don’t think they’re a loser, why do you think you are?
    2. Who are you or anybody else to judge who is a loser?

    Lastly, there is no reason why you should not be setting goals for yourself for the things that you feel you are falling behind on (e.g. learning an instrument), but ask yourself why you haven’t taken your friend up on their offer to borrow the guitar? Is it because you really don’t want to play guitar and just think it’s something non-losers do? Maybe something else or a bit of both.

    A. You’re not a loser
    B. Don’t compare yourself to others
    C. If you want to do something, do it, and if you don’t stick with it, figure out why not.

    Good luck! You’re a rockstar!