What is a new thing, a new something that you have recently gotten into, or that you have been a long time participant in, that you find very entertaining and fun and time consuming and distracting?
What things would we need to purchase to get into that thing?
How did you get into that thing?
If you draw or dabble in the arts try out Water Mixable Oil Paint! No turpentine or odors, it’s real oilpaint but it can be cleaned with water!
Nothing beats oil paint, it’s crazy, amazing and humbling, you can probably spend a lifetime and still have new things to learn. After the initial cost (say 200€ max if you keep thing normal) it can be a low cost hobby too if you don’t go crazy.
Play The Long Drive. Lookup nothing. Play in the dark with loud sound.
Watching movies. There’s so many movies, both good and bad. Sometimes bad movies are fun too, especially horror.
Others have mentioned video games. I’ve gotten into emulation using Batocera. Can be installed on old hard drives/raspberry pis.
Depending on your space/climate, gardening and/or growing mushrooms.
I’ve been looking more into home improvement and homesteading.
I also just tend to get fixated on random things that interest me and go down rabbit holes.
Minecraft. Build a cool base in the side of a mountain or in a tree with a ton of secret passages. I play it with my kids and enjoy it just as much as they do.
Skipping/jump rope. Great exercise, crazy fun and an endless amount of tricks and combos to learn.
I decided to get into drone piloting this week. Turns out you don’t need a crazy expensive drone to start. It’s a $70 controller, some batteries and a simulator application.
In a few months it’ll be a lot more expensive. For now, it’s not too bad.
If you want something calm, you could try houseplants. There’s all sorts of options from easy to difficult to keep, and it’s easy to end up filling your home with them, which is actually pretty beneficial unlike some other clutter
A little groove box. Like the Roland T-8 or Novation Circuit.
Few hundred bucks will get you a used one. Super fun to sit around and make your own simple beats and songs. No musical knowledge required!
I’m a big proponent of modern affordable musical electronics. If you like it, it’s a fun little thing to do. If you love it, there is endless depth to pursue in many directions. No natural rhythm or understanding of melody needed. It’s fun to just sit and tweak knobs and notes until you like what comes out.
I also recently discovered this website called “Strudel REPL” that let’s you code electronic music in your browser for free. Another fun way to check out the hobby without spending anything.
If you live in an area that gets a lot of snowfall, buy a zamboni. Keep it in a garage. Then, when a big ice storm hits, your time will arrive! Take your zamboni to the city streets! While the city ice crews are trying to melt the ice, you’ll be out there thickening and polishing it to a glimmering shine! You’ll be the ying to their yang. The negative to their positive. You will be the balancing element in nature! Buy your zamboni, and take to the streets!
That would be the most fantastic thing if I lived in such an area, but alas, I do not.
VR. Spend all day in another world.
Planting native plants and checking out the cool bugs that show up.
Video games ^^/$
3D printing.
Get a used printer or build a new one (building it teaches you a lot about how it works).
Start downloading models… toys, gifts, tools.
Start seeing what little things you can fix and improve around your home.
Encounter something you need to print, but can’t find anywhere to download… Get into CAD and start making your own models.
Also there’s a nice side effect if you get into 3D printing: it’s suddenly really easy for your family/friends to buy gifts for you. There’s never enough filaments you could have.
I haven’t the courage to fix my 3D printer sitting in the garage (classic core-xy), should I buy a cheap laser one instead? One with that liquid that solidifies under uv light.
Therapy.
Like, I’m gonna be real with you for a second. I’ve had this little crash out before, but I have actually tried to get therapy, and I have been given an appointment, and I showed up to the appointment, and the therapist fucking did not.
I have literally gone to multiple locations through insurance-approved things, and I have waited my time, and I have made the calls, and I have sent the letters, and I have sent the emails, and I have responded to the emails, and I have done all of the things. And I have been unable to get therapy, and I have decided that, since the universe will not allow me to have therapy, I’m not allowed to have therapy.
In my experience, majority of therapists are garbage. I’ve experienced the same, but once you get one who actually shows up and is actually good at what they do, it’s worth it.
That’s wild. Please keep trying. You. Are. Worth. Every. Effort.
Eta: in the meantime: meditation, some sort of art (paint, photography, pottery, mosaic, a coloring book, sketchbook, doodle, journal, short story etc).
if you don’t have one a steamdeck.
